How to Teach Your Dog the Stay Cue (Step-by-Step)

Teaching your dog to “Stay” is one of the most valuable skills for safety, impulse control, and calmness. In this video, Suzanne works with Sienna to demonstrate how to build the Stay Cue from the ground up, using trust, consistency, and clear communication.

Step 1: Start Small

Begin with your dog in a sit. Use a simple leg lunge to signal “Stay” and immediately return to your dog before rewarding. Always deliver the reward while standing directly in front of them to prevent breaking position.

Step 2: Add Distance Slowly

Once your dog understands the initial motion, begin stepping back one step at a time. Gradually increase distance—two steps, three steps, and so on—while always returning to reward. This slow build reinforces patience and reliability.

Step 3: Introduce Distractions

Work in environments where other dogs or household activity might tempt your dog to move. If they break the stay, calmly guide them back into position without reward, then try again.

Step 4: Practice Release

Don’t forget to teach the release word (such as “Okay” or “Release”). This helps your dog understand the difference between holding position and being free to move, creating clarity and structure.

Step 5: Be Consistent

Progress takes time. Stay sessions should be short, positive, and consistent, gradually building toward calm, reliable stays in real-world situations.

Teaching the Stay Cue isn’t just about obedience—it’s about building trust, self-control, and focus that carries into every part of your dog’s life.